Unadorned

I prefer existing in the world unadorned. Since I have been retired for many years, that usually means clean, casual clothing that fits well and matches my activities for whatever day it is. It helps to live in California where dressing up is unusual, at least in the suburbs.

I think I’ve always favored this lifestyle, although I had to adjust to a more buttoned-up and tailored look when I worked as a librarian for decades and mostly on the East Coast. I almost never wear jewelry or make-up and that too is a long standing habit.

My current wardrobe features workout clothing as I enjoy daily walks and zumba classes a few times a week. I still have skirts and dresses hanging in the closet unworn that I may put on if required. The activities I engage don’t require dressing up usually.

I think my attitude towards adornment stems from a belief that inner beauty is what counts in life. I have never been what anyone would call pretty and may actually be lazy about makeup and getting dressed up in fancy clothing.

I recall my mother telling me that I’d be pretty if I wore lipstick. Unlike most teenagers, I couldn’t be bothered. I recall seeing pictures of my mother and her sisters as young women with makeup and stylish clothes, but I couldn’t see myself that way.

So, I am content with my appearance. I can hike without REI or Patagonia outerwear and exercise without high end Lycra or spandex.

— Oxnard15